How To Approach Women In The Gym
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How To Approach Women In The Gym – Relationships – Dating HomeApproaching women at the gym is not very different to approaching them anywhere else. The key thing here is to have confidence, and oodles of it. When you?re at a gym one of the things you need to be mindful of when speaking to women is that some of them are quite sensitive about their figure. This is most likely why they?ve come to the gym to work out because like everyone else at the gym, they?re concerned about how they look and want to improve it. So steer clear of all comments regarding her weight or figure and you should be okay.
Before you decide to approach that woman you have seen working out in the gym and can?t get your eyes off, you might want to improve your own physique if you feel you need to, and if you?re already on the way to being Mr. Universe, you could impress your lady friend by showing her your muscles; subtly of course. Walking up to her and flexing them is not likely to impress any woman, Tarzan.
As you are in a gym, sweating slightly isn?t such a bad thing. In fact some women may be turned on by the sweat glistening on a well toned body. On the other hand, if you are sweating profusely, I mean beads of sweat just oozing out of every pore, you might want to rub yourself down first. Also make sure you have applied some deodorant! This isn?t rocket science. If you?ve been working out and haven?t applied deodorant, you are likely to smell and chicks don?t dig smelly guys.
If you have a good physique and the looks to match, you could try to catch her attention by lifting weights. You could always watch her work out and glance in her direction once in awhile. Make sure you aren?t staring as this may be a turn-off. Your best time to talk to her would be after her work out.
Start the conversation off by telling her that you were impressed by her workout and then tell her your name. If she shows some interest, ask her for her name and offer her something to drink, so you can both take a break. Because you?re both at the gym, that would be an ideal starting point for your conversation. Just make sure you look like you?ve actually worked out a bit so that you don?t come off as someone who goes to gyms to pick up chicks.
Maintain eye contact and avoid staring at her body. You want to show her you?re interested in her, but this doesn?t prevent you from making positive comments about her figure in a nice way.
Approaching women at the gym is not only for guys with bulging biceps. If you don?t have the best physique you could approach her and ask her for some ideas on how to work out. You might even get ask her to instruct you on some techniques.
So approaching women at the gym is not all that difficult with the right attitude and a good dose of self confidence.
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As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
I have found a lot of good information in the writers market for my novel. I am aware of the individual guidelines for submission each publisher may have. However I’m not sure if I should wait for replies one at a time or submit to multiple publishers all at once.
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I would like to read your experiences of how you ask or befriend a girl at the gym. Women, you can also answer by telling how would you like a guy to approach you at the gym. Obviously, I want to use it for my benefit so I can ask this girl out from my gym!
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
there’s a woman at the gym i attend who i personally find unbelievably beautiful. i don’t generally have a hard time approaching women, but considering we’re in a gym i just feel awkward about the entire situation.
i come into the gym to workout, not to hook up and i assume she’s there for the same reason. however, this is a special case and if i don’t talk to her i’m basically going to regret it for the rest of my life.
we both attend very regularly- i have been for several yrs so this isn’t a case where i’m going for someone “out of my league” rather a case of “bad timing.” reality is, i’ll likely never see her OUT of the gym.
women: how pissed do you get when some random dude interrupts your workout and how awkward is the gym as a setting for a “how you doin????????” conversation?
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
There is a girl I see at the gym every once in a while and it seems she is always glancing over at me and vice-versa. She always has head phones in and goes to work out, not get noticed. How do i go about introducing myself?
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
I work out bout 4 days per week at 24 hour fitness and its going great. Not that im shy to talk to girls or anything but the thing is that i find alot of girls staring at me at the gym for a quick sec. They look away when i see look at them back. Im an attractive guy (atleast people say i am). But i just think its awkward to go approach women at the gym when theyre in theyre short clothes and all sweaty. Is it just me or does anyone else feel this way? Does anyone have any advice on how to approach girls at the gym ?
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
There’s this one girl in my gym who I’ve run into several times and she’s beautiful, her stare tells me she’s interested, she stares at me like a piece of meat.jaja but shes always on the womens side of the gym.she really gets into her workout so I really dont want to annoy her. So how can I approach her without bugging her and looking like I’m desperate?
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
There’s this one girl in my gym who I’ve run into several times and she’s beautiful, her stare tells me she’s interested, she stares at me like a piece of meat.jaja but shes always on the womens side of the gym.she really gets into her workout so I really dont want to annoy her. So how can I approach her without bugging her and looking like I’m desperate?
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
there’s a woman at the gym i attend who i personally find unbelievably beautiful. i don’t generally have a hard time approaching women, but considering we’re in a gym i just feel awkward about the entire situation.
i come into the gym to workout, not to hook up and i assume she’s there for the same reason. however, this is a special case and if i don’t talk to her i’m basically going to regret it for the rest of my life.
we both attend very regularly- i have been for several yrs so this isn’t a case where i’m going for someone “out of my league” rather a case of “bad timing.” reality is, i’ll likely never see her OUT of the gym.
women: how pissed do you get when some random dude interrupts your workout and how awkward is the gym as a setting for a “how you doin????????” conversation?
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
There’s this one girl in my gym who I’ve run into several times and she’s beautiful, her stare tells me she’s interested, she stares at me like a piece of meat.jaja but shes always on the womens side of the gym.she really gets into her workout so I really dont want to annoy her. So how can I approach her without bugging her and looking like I’m desperate?
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
What advice did they give to ow to approach women and the signs that a girl is into you? Please no advice on what they do in clubs but how to approach women when out solo or a gym.
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
I know I’m supposed to request guidelines from individual publishers, but surely there is a way to do this electronically these days, instead of sending it through the mail? I have looked at several publishers’ websites and cannot find any information for hopeful authors! Thanks!
I tend to see attractive women at the gym. I am no stranger to talking to the ladies but I think a woman wouldn’t want to be approached in the gym since she is there to work out and not get hit on. However, that is the only place I see these women. I would not stick around after they left the gym to talk to them. Time is money!
So would you want a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how would you want him to approach you?
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
I get alot of stares from all types of women at the gym. But the problem I have is how would I approach them? most of them don’t wanna get approached b/c their all into their workout which is fine but if I keep getting these stares and I know they mean something b/c women need attetion and if those stares is a green light to come talk to me I wanna know. So is there a right way to approach a women in this solution. Thanks
there’s a woman at the gym i attend who i personally find unbelievably beautiful. i don’t generally have a hard time approaching women, but considering we’re in a gym i just feel awkward about the entire situation.
i come into the gym to workout, not to hook up and i assume she’s there for the same reason. however, this is a special case and if i don’t talk to her i’m basically going to regret it for the rest of my life.
we both attend very regularly- i have been for several yrs so this isn’t a case where i’m going for someone “out of my league” rather a case of “bad timing.” reality is, i’ll likely never see her OUT of the gym.
women: how pissed do you get when some random dude interrupts your workout and how awkward is the gym as a setting for a “how you doin????????” conversation?
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
I tend to see attractive women at the gym. I am no stranger to talking to the ladies but I think a woman wouldn’t want to be approached in the gym since she is there to work out and not get hit on. However, that is the only place I see these women. I would not stick around after they left the gym to talk to them. Time is money!
So would you want a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how would you want him to approach you?
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
As an example, there is a very pretty girl about my age who comes into the gym as my shift ends at work. I then go into the gym to work out every day after my shift. How could I strike up a conversation with her that isn’t overly awkward, or random, or that lasts like 2 seconds lol.
I tend to see attractive women at the gym. I am no stranger to talking to the ladies but I think a woman wouldn’t want to be approached in the gym since she is there to work out and not get hit on. However, that is the only place I see these women. I would not stick around after they left the gym to talk to them. Time is money!
So would you want a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how would you want him to approach you?
I tend to see attractive women at the gym. I am no stranger to talking to the ladies but I think a woman wouldn’t want to be approached in the gym since she is there to work out and not get hit on. However, that is the only place I see these women. I would not stick around after they left the gym to talk to them. Time is money!
So would you want a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how would you want him to approach you?
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
I go to Bally’s every night and always tend to see attractive women there. I am not stranger to the ladies but I don’t think it is a good idea to approach a woman at the gym because she is there to work out and probably doesn’t want anyone interrupting her, especially when they have their headphones in their ears.
I was at the gym a few hours ago and was very tempted to talk to this gorgeous woman. She hopped on a treadmill so I went and hopped on the one right beside her. I thought maybe this would throw her a hint since there were twenty more empty ones and I chose the one right next to her. Anyways, we were both on the treadmill for about 40 minutes. I was jogging the entire time. When she finished, she fiddled with her things and even took out her headphones. I thought this may have been my hint and this would have been my window to talk to her but I wasn’t sure.
For future references, would you approach a woman at the gym? If so, how?
Ladies, would you for a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how?
Also, I wouldn’t want to wait for her to leave because I can’t be there all night trying to talk to her. Time is money!
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
There’s this one girl in my gym who I’ve run into several times and she’s beautiful, her stare tells me she’s interested, she stares at me like a piece of meat.jaja but shes always on the womens side of the gym.she really gets into her workout so I really dont want to annoy her. So how can I approach her without bugging her and looking like I’m desperate?
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
I go to Bally’s every night and always tend to see attractive women there. I am not stranger to the ladies but I don’t think it is a good idea to approach a woman at the gym because she is there to work out and probably doesn’t want anyone interrupting her, especially when they have their headphones in their ears.
I was at the gym a few hours ago and was very tempted to talk to this gorgeous woman. She hopped on a treadmill so I went and hopped on the one right beside her. I thought maybe this would throw her a hint since there were twenty more empty ones and I chose the one right next to her. Anyways, we were both on the treadmill for about 40 minutes. I was jogging the entire time. When she finished, she fiddled with her things and even took out her headphones. I thought this may have been my hint and this would have been my window to talk to her but I wasn’t sure.
For future references, would you approach a woman at the gym? If so, how?
Ladies, would you for a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how?
Also, I wouldn’t want to wait for her to leave because I can’t be there all night trying to talk to her. Time is money!
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
there’s a woman at the gym i attend who i personally find unbelievably beautiful. i don’t generally have a hard time approaching women, but considering we’re in a gym i just feel awkward about the entire situation.
i come into the gym to workout, not to hook up and i assume she’s there for the same reason. however, this is a special case and if i don’t talk to her i’m basically going to regret it for the rest of my life.
we both attend very regularly- i have been for several yrs so this isn’t a case where i’m going for someone “out of my league” rather a case of “bad timing.” reality is, i’ll likely never see her OUT of the gym.
women: how pissed do you get when some random dude interrupts your workout and how awkward is the gym as a setting for a “how you doin????????” conversation?
I tend to see attractive women at the gym. I am no stranger to talking to the ladies but I think a woman wouldn’t want to be approached in the gym since she is there to work out and not get hit on. However, that is the only place I see these women. I would not stick around after they left the gym to talk to them. Time is money!
So would you want a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how would you want him to approach you?
I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years and am re-entering the DC Metro Area dating scene. I am at somewhat of a loss of how and when to approach women on the street or elsewhere? By way of reference, I am an African American male in my early 30′s. So some of the tactics that I used to employ when I was in high school and undergrad seem childish now, but that’s all that I remember. I have no wish to pursue online dating options call me old fashioned but I prefer to meet someone in the real world first.
Some questions that I have:
Is it OK to approach a woman on the Metro when she is going/coming to work? If so what is the best way to go about it?
Is it OK to approach a woman when she is traveling with girlfriend(s)? If so, what is the best way to go about it?
Also, is it OK to approach a woman while she is working out at the gym? If so, how and under what circumstances is it OK to approach?
Any constructive help would be appreciated
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
I go to Bally’s every night and always tend to see attractive women there. I am not stranger to the ladies but I don’t think it is a good idea to approach a woman at the gym because she is there to work out and probably doesn’t want anyone interrupting her, especially when they have their headphones in their ears.
I was at the gym a few hours ago and was very tempted to talk to this gorgeous woman. She hopped on a treadmill so I went and hopped on the one right beside her. I thought maybe this would throw her a hint since there were twenty more empty ones and I chose the one right next to her. Anyways, we were both on the treadmill for about 40 minutes. I was jogging the entire time. When she finished, she fiddled with her things and even took out her headphones. I thought this may have been my hint and this would have been my window to talk to her but I wasn’t sure.
For future references, would you approach a woman at the gym? If so, how?
Ladies, would you for a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how?
Also, I wouldn’t want to wait for her to leave because I can’t be there all night trying to talk to her. Time is money!
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
I go to Bally’s every night and always tend to see attractive women there. I am not stranger to the ladies but I don’t think it is a good idea to approach a woman at the gym because she is there to work out and probably doesn’t want anyone interrupting her, especially when they have their headphones in their ears.
I was at the gym a few hours ago and was very tempted to talk to this gorgeous woman. She hopped on a treadmill so I went and hopped on the one right beside her. I thought maybe this would throw her a hint since there were twenty more empty ones and I chose the one right next to her. Anyways, we were both on the treadmill for about 40 minutes. I was jogging the entire time. When she finished, she fiddled with her things and even took out her headphones. I thought this may have been my hint and this would have been my window to talk to her but I wasn’t sure.
For future references, would you approach a woman at the gym? If so, how?
Ladies, would you for a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how?
Also, I wouldn’t want to wait for her to leave because I can’t be there all night trying to talk to her. Time is money!
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
There’s this one girl in my gym who I’ve run into several times and she’s beautiful, her stare tells me she’s interested, she stares at me like a piece of meat.jaja but shes always on the womens side of the gym.she really gets into her workout so I really dont want to annoy her. So how can I approach her without bugging her and looking like I’m desperate?
Last night i was working out and i saw this very pretty woman a couple of machines down from me. I would keep looking over towards her and i would notice she would look over at me too. I was going to go over to her after i finished my workout but she was in the middle of doing squats so i didnt want to walk over and have to stand there awkwardly until she finished her lift so i left. Tonight when i go back I want to go up to her and attempt to get her phone number but I want to make sure i approach her in the right way and say the right things. What i was planning on saying is something along the lines of “Hi my name is Will, i wanted to tell you that you’re a very beautiful woman and you have gorgeous eyes” and then go from there but I am not sure if that too much or what a woman would want a guy to say to her especially since its in a gym. HELP!! lol
I seriously don’t understand how people do this. I’m not exactly socially incompetent, but the thought of interrupting somebody’s workout routine really bothers me. That’s not to say that I’d never entertain the notion of approaching a woman in the gym, because I’d love to – I’d just have no clue what to say or where to start a conversation from.
For starters, I’m not a super well-built guy. That’s not to say that I’m overweight, because I’m quite the opposite: I’m thin, have decent structure, but am trying to build more muscle mass. There are definitely a lot of men at the gym with way nicer bodies than mine, is what I’m getting at. Still, it does seem as if I sometimes have cute girls looking at me for extended periods of time, sometimes very noticeably. They seem to be either my age or a lot older, lol.
I’ve just no idea how to go about talking to a girl at the gym I’ve never before met. Is it realistic for a guy like me to expect any success amongst muscleheads and jocks? A lot of women seem to either like me or think I’m cute, so I’m not that worried about how I look, but more about how I come across.
Does anybody have any advice? Girls – do you ever talk to random guys at the gym? I know some prefer to focus on their exercise and leave, but there are undeniably others who are at least receptive to social encounters. What approaches would make you wan to stop talking to somebody?
Thanks for the help. I’m in sort of a rut – I’ve decided to stop clubbing (alcohol and cover costs add up; that, and you never meet many smart, single girls out and about) and am attending community college for another year before transferring to the University of Michigan. I’m sure I’ll have a great time there, but that’s not for a while.
I enjoy Y/A, but I’ve been on here pretty much every night for the last few weeks, and while it’s great, it cant hold a candle to some other things.
It has been more than ample time since my last relationship, and I now feel ready to get into the dating scene again. I am 29. My problem is I have never been good at meeting new women. I am shy and unforward, and because of this I think I have missed many opportunities.
To make matters worse, I presently have few avenues for meeting women. The industry I work in is male-dominated. I am attending night school this fall, but while I have had success in the past with women at school, I feel as I get older that likelihood is diminishing. I have pretty much lost almost all interest in the bar-scene, and I rarely had much luck there anyway. I never went to a bar looking for a one-night stand- thus I usually left empty-handed.
I think my best possibility of meeting a woman is at the gym, as I work out at one regularly. However, this type of atmosphere I find most intimidating in regard to approaching women. In the bar-scene, there is that presumption that many people there are looking to meet someone, and thus it was not quite so hard for me to approach women. Yet at the gym, I feel like I have no pretense to do so. The same goes for other non-bar situations, such as a store or restaurant.
I know I am attractive; I catch glances and double-takes from women in public. Yet I still find it hard to approach a woman in public. I feel it is so awkward. I’ll fully admit I’m not the most confident man.
So my question is for the man who feels he is successful in “picking up” a woman- how do you do it? What is your method of approach when you see an attractive woman in public?
And for the woman- what type of advances by a man do you think you are more receptive to when you are at, say, a store or a gym? Say you are a single woman at the gym who isn’t necessarily there to meet a man, but of course are open to the possibility. A man approaches you. What would/could he say that might interest you?
Sorry this is such a long question!
C’mon- it’s not that simple. A woman sitting at the bar by herself, sipping on her drink and staring vacantly ahead, or a woman pumping her quads at a gym while listening to her Ipod- which one is easier to approach?
I go to the gym regularly, but trust me, I am not conceited. I go more for a sense of well-being than vanity. And, again, trust me- I feel like a manly man. I have something between my legs that prevents me from feeling otherwise.
im a naturally shy guy and i dont approach women like most men do… but when it does come to women i hear a lot about just be yourself. which makes me wonder, if im myself, a shy guy that doesnt hit on girls, how will i possibly get a girlfriend?
so heres my problem, i dont party, i dont go clubbing, i dont go to bars. the only place i have to meet women is school, gym, and places like the grocery/stores/malls. do i have to wait until a girl comes up to me and hits on me? do i hope theres a beautiful girl in my class that i might possibly sit by or what not? do i hope a beautiful girl gets hired at my work so its easier for me to talk to her?
i mean right now, the closest i got was a cute girl flirted with my at the gym in my college, but me being shy and unconfident, i couldnt hold a conversation with her for longer than 5 seconds. even worse, there are no attractive girls in any of my classes or at my work (like literally none at all). the only attractive girls i see around at school are the ones that i have no type of connection or affiliation with and the only girls i see at my work are the ones walking aroudn downtown (where i work) on lunch breaks. so it seems that to meet a girl i might be forced to just randomly go up to a girl which seems HIGHLY impossible right now considering i cant even imagine myself approaching a girl. so how would a shy guy ever have a girlfriend?
I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have “checked me out.” I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I “grow a pair”? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
I am very attracted to this girl at my gym. I am very shy in approaching women for the first time. I don’t want to introduce myself with some lame intro! Help me out ladies, what does a guy say or do without looking or sounding like a nurd?
I have been single now for about 2 years (I’m 22 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl.
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here is a picture of me if you guys are curious…
oi51.tinypic.com/14delwm.jpg
I have been single now for about 2 years (I’m 22 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl.
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here is a picture of me if you guys are curious…
oi51.tinypic.com/14delwm.jpg
I have been single now for about 2 years (I’m 22 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl.
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here’s a picture of me – I know I look like a douchebag muscle head, but I promise I’m not
http://oi55.tinypic.com/spgrki.jpg
I have never had a girlfriend and never had sex. I’m 22 years old right now and it makes me extremely miserable. The sex itself is not a big deal but it’s more being alone all the time that sucks. My problem is I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl.
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here’s a picture of me
http://oi53.tinypic.com/nxond0.jpg
K here’s the scenario. I been working out in the gym for some time now. Recently earlier this week a woman caught my eye. As I went threw my workout I had looked at her a couple of times. I thought she was attractive and wanted to talk with her but I know sometimes the gym is not the best place to talk. She had looked at me a couple of times but when I took a look at her she would turn away. Plus she was wearing headphones the whole time. This continued for about 3 days and on the fourth day halfway through my workout I decided to go talk to her. She was doing armcurls with light weights and I said “Hey enjoying your workout?” She replied huh, because she had her headphones on. I repeated and she then said Ya. I then gave her a little tip on how the way she was doing it. She said ok. I then asked you come here alot? By this time she had turned down her headphones. She replied ya. After that I said we’ll i’ll let you get back to your workout and by the way whas your name? We exchanged names and I walked back to continue my workout. I had noticed a little while later she had took a couple of glances at me from afar. It’s a funny situation and I would like to talk to her, take her out maybe etc.
What would be the next steps to take?
I’m thinking of Miranda in Sex & The City when that dude approached her and just said, “Hi…You know, I’ve seen you in here.You are very sexy.”
How should a guy in the gym approach you if he likes you? Obviously it should be when you’re not in the middle of something but is it wrong to be open and direct and not beat about the bush?
“Hi. I’ve noticed you in here before and just had to tell you that you’re… absolutely gorgeous! I love your hair. I just had to meet you and find out more. I’m …”
Or would you prefer it if he kept his romantic intentions secret and engage in idle chat and lame excuses to talk to you instead?
“You know a better way of doing that exercise?/Can I help you with that?”
Of course a man could just say hello and introduce himself with nothing sexual about it all but that would seem pretty weird to single YOU out like that – I think you’d KNOW why he was introducing himself. If he tells you he wanted to meet you cos you caught his eye then at least he’s being honest and not useing a lame excuse to talk to you.
So how would you like a guy to approach you in the gym? Or would you rather he didnt even cos you’re too busy exercising?
I agree catching them after their workout or when they’re leaving is better but its hard to do that in a big gym unless you keep an eye on them! She might think “STALKER” if she realises I watched her and waited for her to leave before approaching!
Also if I approach her AFTER her workout then doesnt that mean I ALWAYS have to wait for to finish if we want to talk? Even if she likes me back???
Men and women talk to eachother in the gym all the time, why should waiting till afterwards be important just cos its romantic interest?
OK, what about when she’s just strolling around the track, drinking at the fountain?
I have been single now for about 6 years (I’m 23 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl. All my friends have girlfriends at this point and it makes me absolutely miserable coming home every night to nothing but myself
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here is a picture of me if you guys are curious
http://oi53.tinypic.com/nxond0.jpg
I have been single now for about 6 years (I’m 23 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl. All my friends have girlfriends at this point and it makes me absolutely miserable coming home every night to nothing but myself
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here is a picture of me if you guys are curious
http://oi53.tinypic.com/nxond0.jpg
I was sitting outside, like I normally do at my apartment to get on the wifi network, and this class ended. So while I’m minding my own business, two women walk outside because they were finished with the class( one white, one Hispanic). I made it clear, that I was not attracted to anyone in that class on a previous answers’ question. Well, the women in that class know who I am and I guess they thought it was a funny comment. “I will watch you while you walk to the car” while I’m sitting outside on my computer. To be honest, I don’t walk inside the computer room while they are practicing because the music is loud,to where it an unenjoyable experience. Well, I am a tall, large, black man. Well educated, have my own money, not desperate for sex and might I say just not interested. To be honest, that was the most racist thing I thought a woman could do to a man. I am attracted to white women, but they have to and seriously have to approach me first or I’m not talking to them. I don’t know where they would get the audacity to even think of some strange thing like that. I’m very well educated and working on going to Harvard or Yale for law or architecture. What makes you think I want any criminal record? I’m not a statistic. Another thing also, are women who I meet all the time. I don’t approach women, they have to approach me and if they are leading me on in a certain way, then say something like “I was just playing.” my next reaction is get away from me.
Someone I knew back in high school was a victim of a false lie told by his girlfriends mom. He was black, she was white. He was in juvenile hall and she got to live a normal life. That’s why it upset me to hear that. I’m the nicest guy, and will not bother a soul. Naturally, in acceptance to today, I wait until they leave then I will go to the wifi center. I don’t make small talk and keep on going. The one who teaches the class seems uncertain to me to. Also, when I’m at the gym, a lot of anglo Saxon women try and get my attention by walking in front of me wearing skimpy wardrobes. Yet, keep getting in front of me putting their goods in my face, I haven’t approached any of them because they’re just playing games to lead you on into thinking something different than what they were saying initially. Just as well as the nightclub, that’s why I wait til they come up to me. Other than that I don’t mess with them just try and enjoy my time. I’m tired of them coming up next to me, like go stand by someone else. Why do those women do that? Also, some get mad cause I don’t talk to them yet know what they are doing? Also, how can you even consider a young man, furthering his education, really doesn’t try and speak to you because I’m uncomfortable in a way, and am not interested to try and cause physical violence to you for no good reason? Also, why hide racism? Why not just come out and say it as a woman? It’s a lot to do in point as well, that if I see a man putting his hands on a woman, I look the other way cause it’s not my business. The only woman who I would fight for and keep safe was my mom. Is this just certain ethnicities way of getting back at me because I made it clear I don’t find them attractive?
Nayak: I liked your answer but the thing that your getting wrong is that I’m not the one getting rejected, it’s them. A girl asked me to dance and she didn’t know how to and she got mad at me and looked at me with disgust. Another thing is that I can just go up to a woman and start to have just a “friendly” conversation and they think I’m hitting on them, that gets annoying. Also, I have rejected some then when they say some strange stuff like “he’s mad at the world” I’m like ” no, I just get annoyed trying to explain it when I should leave it alone because most if the time, the ones who get rejected and can’t get married before 30 aren’t really attractive. If I get rejected, I just laugh it off, don’t cry about it, just keep going but when the girl (not woman) comes back and all of a sudden wants to talk to me again, I laugh at them because they actually thought I was doing it for them. I told some women in my leasing office, I’m not Interested and they seriously think ” oh, he’s just
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with.
It has been a while since I have seen someone who I am attracted to and interested in. How do I strike up a conversation with a woman who works out at the same gym as I do? I am used to meeting women at clubs where it is easy to mingle with. I do not want to bother her during her workout, and I sure in hell don’t want to make myself look like a stalker or anything like that. She is someone who I noticed one day and was instantly attracted to her.
Last night before I left the gym, I apologized to this girl who works there.
She’s in her 20′s like me.
I apologized because 2 weeks ago, I gave her a note.
I first asked her what the time was and she told me the gym closes at 10 pm (I am in California).
I know what time the gym closes though.
I ended up telling her that I “found” a note.
The note said, “you’re the most beautiful red head that I’ve ever seen. Maybe, I’ll talk to you next time I see you. Hmmm.”
It wasn’t a practical joke and I meant what I said in the note.
After I gave her the note, she asked me what my name was and I told her that it’s Alan.
I didn’t know what her reaction was because I told her that I had to go.
Before I ended up giving her that note 2 weeks ago, she knew I was checking her out and she’s even smiled at me at times even rolling her eyes while smiling at me.
3 weeks ago, she actually approached me if I was using this thing that helps people balance themselves.
I wasn’t by it though as I was on the floor with my back up against an elliptical as I just got done running on the treadmill.
She smiled at me a couple times tonight before I gave her the note and just keeps walking past me.
She told me the note was a little strange but she couldn’t look at me when she was talking to me and even smiled when she was talking to me.
I told her that I didn’t just know what to say to her.
She was like, “It’s alright.”
We didn’t say, “Bye,” to each other though.
Does she just not care that I complimented her?
She’s the only girl I’ve ever told she’s beautiful to in a note.
I’m not a creep if that’s what you think.
I rarely ever approach women.
I’ve been dumped twice, led on, rejected and used by women in my past.
She does talk to guys at the gym but she’s not flirting or joking with them.
She’s the only woman I feel nervous around at the gym.
I do get checked out once in a while by women at the gym but I don’t nervous around
There’s this one girl in my gym who I’ve run into several times and she’s beautiful, her stare tells me she’s interested, she stares at me like a piece of meat.jaja but shes always on the womens side of the gym.she really gets into her workout so I really dont want to annoy her. So how can I approach her without bugging her and looking like I’m desperate?
First, let me clarify that my girlfriend is a friend that is a girl. She is a hot chilean model that has win several beauty pageants. I was kind of sad and decided to ask her, how to approach women. She told me that the secret is not to show interest. But by not showing interest, it does not mean being a snob. It means not showing her interest in a physical or provocative manner. I should show her interest in friendly manner and I should not talk that much. For example, if I see a beautiful girl working in a store or maybe being a host in a restaurant, a perfect way of winning her heart is the following. Just go towards her, calmly give her a chocolate and tell her “You look tired, I hope this can brighten your day!.” She will be thrilled with the gesture, even if she responds to you or not. If she does not respond, walk away. If she does, STAY QUIET! and let her do the talking. The secret at this point, is not talking that much and let her do the talking. If you get her phone, call her after a couple of days, but do not let a whole week pass. In conclusion, just advance to a woman and give her a nice compliment that reflects friendliness. Do not mention her clothes, or how her smiles makes you happy, or how classy she is, or how seeing her has brighten your day. Anything that has to do with her body, clothes or gesture ignites her defensive mechanism. After reading this, could anyone answer the following questions”
1) Is this true,?
2) Could the previous example actually win the attention or heart of a woman?
3) Would you please give more examples to win the attention of woman in the following scenarios: a) working in mall
b)party or club
c) gym
d) university
4) Could you please give me your personal input and advice?
Thanks!
Please, give me input without using CHOCOLATE. I do not carry a candy bar wherever I go! LOL!
I suggested that maybe I could give a girl that I have seen that is working all day a bottle of water and tell her ” You look tired, I hope this helps you cheer up a little bit!”
there’s a woman who I keep seeing at the gym. I want to go up and talk to her, but I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. Any ideas? I’m in my mid 20′s
I tend to see attractive women at the gym. I am no stranger to talking to the ladies but I think a woman wouldn’t want to be approached in the gym since she is there to work out and not get hit on. However, that is the only place I see these women. I would not stick around after they left the gym to talk to them. Time is money!
So would you want a man to approach you at the gym? If so, how would you want him to approach you?
I have been single now for about 2 years (I’m 22 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don’t have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can’t meet girls in school. I don’t really like to go out and party because women there are all drunk and it’s very difficult to find a good girl.
I don’t want to approach women who are strangers cause I have always heard u guys hate that. I love the women at the gym but I always hear u guys complaining that men talk to you at the gym so that seems like another off limits place. Just seems like women don’t want to get approached anywhere.
So how can a guy like me find some nice girls to date?? I’m not a bad looking guy in real life and I get along great with almost everybody I know, so I know I’m not a bad person. My friends always tell me that I’m a great guy
here’s a picture of me – I know I look like a douchebag muscle head, but I promise I’m not
http://oi55.tinypic.com/spgrki.jpg
I am 21 years old and I am attending University. I am in Criminology. I go to the gym four times a week and really take care of my health (running, lifting weights, & eating healthy food). I am 5″11, weight almost 180ib (slim, muscular shape), blue eyes, and short dark brown hair (like almost a buzz cut). I am very out-going, and really easy to get with. Good confidence. But my question to you girls is how should I dress for my age and what is the best way to approach women my age?
And are there any specific guidelines to sending things in because I’ve looked at some publishers websites and they don’t really say anything about getting something published. And what is the different between a synopsis and a query letter, and do you have to have both? Thanks.
How to approach women in public places
How can u approach a girl whom i had never met.
In a place like universities (I am an Uni student and i want to talk with girls whom i don’t even have the slightest relation i mean they are not in my classes)
Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.
1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?say something that i can start a conversation!!
2. If the person is interested, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?
thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!
There is a girl last year I liked, I met her properly at work in November 2010. She is attractive, athletic and certainly ‘up there’ in terms of looks and personality in my opinion. By the way I’m 19 and I have never been in a relationship.
I asked for her number in February and then a couple of weeks later asked her out and she initially said ‘yes’ but she never committed to a date even though she sounded like she wanted to go out with me. She said she was ‘busy’ within the next week so I said I’d get back to her. I asked her out to a coffee a few weeks later and two times she said ‘she’d get back to me’ but she never did so I had to give up on her because she wasn’t even willing to give 15 minutes of her time to me. Now, I thought she had at least some interest in me that is why I was really confident in trying but I got sent back to reality. I waited a couple of weeks to ask her out because I was sick in those two weeks literally, was stuck in the house most the time.
I feel a lot less confident now and I believe in my mind the only reason I didn’t get her is because I’m not good looking enough for her and if it was my exact personality into a guy she finds physically attractive, she’d go out with that guy. But even if she is attracted to personalities and confidence over looks, it just shows I suck at this and my first attempt to go on a date with someone I liked a LOT instead of trying with random girls just to get experience makes it a lot worse.
In December 2010, there was another attractive girl who gave me her number but it happened around this time so I decided to go for the girl at work instead of her, stupid choice, mind you I tried contacting her a few times before I moved on from her but she never answers her phone. In all the times I’ve rang her from December to April (not too many but enough to know she couldn’t have just been busy every time I rang her) she has never answered. I tried to ask her out in April but I could only contact via text and I didn’t get a response back twice. I just wanted coffee and when I saw her, I was going to ask her out properly but I couldn’t do that
I joined the gym a few weeks ago and I think it’s helping take my mind off this because it’s something to concentrate heavily on. But yeah it’s for me, not to impress any girls by the way. Are there any positives to take from this? Have I shown any strides? I don’t want to get into a relationship for the sake of it obviously but I don’t want to keep coming up on the losing end with girls I like.
I need to actually like the girl from the first meeting it seems generally for me to have the drive to ask a girl out. Also when I say ‘attractive’ girl, I’m not exclusively looking for girls who are very physically attractive, it’s just how circumstances worked out that I met this two girls and they had very good personalities to in my opinion.
Also I think I’m a ‘good’ guy and it seems women tend to fall for jerks who have unlimited confidence even though a lot of them are just all talk and no action. I’m confident in myself and who I am but it’s not easy for me to translate that into asking out girls and dating it seems.
I saw a hot girl in the elliptical at the gym so I figured I’d go start something. I got on the one next to her and we were literally. Other silently running for like 20 minutes. I think she wanted me to say something but I didn’t know what to say so any answers are greatly appreciated. Thank u all!